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filmgoerjuan
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Hurr78 wrote: |
What makes a good first date? In my opinion, something that allows you to talk in a low-key and comfortable setting... so a movie is bad. |
Actually, I disagree with that. The nice thing about a movie as a date is that it's a shared experience with the other person. It gives you a topic to discuss (over coffee after the film, say) that you will both have as a common point of reference. Once the ball is rolling (and assuming that your opinion on the film isn't diametrically opposite to the other person's), you'll be able to talk about other things.
I do agree with you about the dinner thing, though |
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graywolf
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Fri Sep 03, 2004 5:35 am Post subject: |
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Ok not that I date much but when I invite people over for dinner the first time I go thru a lot of trouble to make an over the top impression. For example if I'm making creme brule rather than use one of those wimpy hand held kitchen torches I use a standard size propane tank. And if you're doing something like bananas foster throwing cinamon across the flame causes and excellent sparkle effect. _________________ Actually believes Tron is a movie about mans relationship with God. |
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thuringwethil
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Fri Sep 03, 2004 5:39 am Post subject: |
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graywolf wrote: |
Ok not that I date much but when I invite people over for dinner the first time I go thru a lot of trouble to make an over the top impression. For example if I'm making creme brule rather than use one of those wimpy hand held kitchen torches I use a standard size propane tank. And if you're doing something like bananas foster throwing cinamon across the flame causes and excellent sparkle effect. |
I'm impressed. Bananas Foster is my favorite. _________________ 'He looked at her, and being a man whom pity deeply stirred, it seemed to him that her loveliness amid her grief would pierce his heart.' —Faramir's thoughts on Éowyn |
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Jazzman
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Fri Sep 03, 2004 10:00 am Post subject: |
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When company comes over I make sure their pop-tart goes in the good toaster, and it comes from a fresh box. Nothing but the best for my guests... _________________ All I ask is for a chance to prove that money can't buy happiness. |
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Cocles
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Fri Sep 03, 2004 10:04 am Post subject: |
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graywolf wrote: |
For example if I'm making creme brule rather than use one of those wimpy hand held kitchen torches I use a standard size propane tank. |
Big deal. Try growing and harvesting your own bananas. |
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Pixie
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Fri Sep 03, 2004 2:49 pm Post subject: |
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Cocles wrote: |
Big deal. Try growing and harvesting your own bananas. |
And then having a wife who makes Bananas Fosters with them for you...mmmmmmmmm |
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Hurr78
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Fri Sep 03, 2004 10:10 pm Post subject: |
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graywolf wrote: |
For example if I'm making creme brule rather than use one of those wimpy hand held kitchen torches I use a standard size propane tank. sparkle effect. |
lmao... a standard size propane tank. Take care not to set anything on fire, Gray!
By the way, Juan, I agree that you have a point about the movie being a good jumping-off point for a discussion. But keep in mind that a really bad or overly bizarre movie can just kill the mood completely, too. |
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filmgoerjuan
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Sat Sep 04, 2004 9:57 am Post subject: |
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Hurr78 wrote: |
By the way, Juan, I agree that you have a point about the movie being a good jumping-off point for a discussion. But keep in mind that a really bad or overly bizarre movie can just kill the mood completely, too. |
True. But even a bad movie can be a good conversation starter, it's the shared nature of the moviegoing experience that makes it effective as a first date. In any event, I think most people would choose a fairly populist film for a first date. You're probably not going to see Fahrenheit 9/11 as a first date (unless you know your political beliefs are very similar) as you'd run the risk of the post-movie coffee being like an episode of Crossfire |
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Tjoe
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Sun Sep 05, 2004 11:20 am Post subject: |
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Jazzman wrote: |
When company comes over I make sure their pop-tart goes in the good toaster, and it comes from a fresh box. Nothing but the best for my guests... |
ROTFLMAO - no kidding! I actually fell on the floor laughing when I read that. I'm a bit of a spazz today. |
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genericdragon
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this is all fun and nice but it doesn't answer the original question. Who the hell is Miranda Otto? _________________ "It does not do to leave a live dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him." ~ J.R.R. Tolkien
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thuringwethil
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genericdragon wrote: |
this is all fun and nice but it doesn't answer the original question. Who the hell is Miranda Otto? |
See my avatar gen. She was Eowyn in LOTR _________________ 'He looked at her, and being a man whom pity deeply stirred, it seemed to him that her loveliness amid her grief would pierce his heart.' —Faramir's thoughts on Éowyn |
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genericdragon
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Sun Sep 05, 2004 5:43 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks. Fun can continue. Not that you need my permission, or take it for that matter. _________________ "It does not do to leave a live dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him." ~ J.R.R. Tolkien
"The thing that impresses me the most about America is the way parents obey their children." ~ King Edward VIII (1894 - 1972) |
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